RAIGE-O-LOGY

I had a job interview yesterday, and this morning I received an email saying that I got the job! I can't stop smiling as I type this. Maybe those candles played a small part, like 10% or so, but the main reason I got hired was that my aunt's friend referred me to the manager of a hotel. That referral was the key factor in landing me the job. Some people might argue that getting a job through connections rather than solely based on merit is somewhat pathetic. I used to think that way too. But not anymore. It is pathetic when you secure a job through a referral and then turn out to be terrible at it. If someone vouches for you, at least try not to disappoint them. Otherwise, it's better not to seek the position in the first place. That's why getting into a company through connections comes with added pressure. You're not only carrying your own reputation; you're also carrying the reputation of the person who referred you. On the other hand, getting hired without a...

I now understand the experience of being an OFW (Overseas Filipino Worker), or in my case, an OFT (Overseas Filipino Tambay). My sister sent me a video of my daughter wishing me a Happy Birthday. It's a mixture of joy and sadness. I'm filled with happiness seeing how my little girl greeted me. She even performed a dance to that silly Nae Nae song. However, I'm also overwhelmed with sadness because I miss her immensely. I don't know when I'll have the chance to see her again. Despite my imperfections as a father, I love my daughter deeply. It's challenging to explain how leaving her behind is for her future, but this is a common story among OFWs. Yesterday, as I blew out the candle on my cake, I made a wish for my birthday. I wished for the opportunity to find a job here, as it would be a step towards providing a better future for my daughter and reuniting with her. I hope those candles fulfill their purpose.

As I approach my 33rd birthday in a foreign land, I find myself relying on the generosity of relatives to navigate each passing day. I don't want to dwell on self-pity; rather, I am immensely grateful for the support extended to me here. I recognize that my experience has been far easier than what these kind-hearted individuals likely endured when they first arrived.  To celebrate my birthday, my aunt graciously organized a small gathering with close family and friends. I am currently staying at another aunt's house, assisting her with the care of her children. Despite being in Dubai since May, I have yet to secure employment, despite my persistent efforts of submitting online applications. I earnestly hope to find a job soon, not only to repay the kindness shown to me but also to extend that same generosity to others who may need assistance along their journey.